Testimonials

"I love your coaching style" — member, IT professional, British Columbia, Canada

"Lez Rendezvous is an amazing community! " — colleague, business coach, British Columbia, Canada

"Coach Sappho is just the best and I just can't say enough good about her - she's truly an outstanding individual." — Lez Rendezvous member, Human Services, Central Florida

"Thank you for offering me hope of a love in my life that will satisfy my wants and needs and helping me overcome my weaknesses when it comes to choosing a partner." — Tech Trainer, Lez Rendezvous member, Central Texas

"Excited to be learning more about creating great relationships." — Lez Rendezvous Member, Finance Professional, Texas

"Thank you so much for all that you have done for my relationship! Keep doing what you do!" — Couples Client, Legal Professional, Southeastern USA

"Barb Elgin is a dynamo!" — colleague, gay and lesbian chamber, Columbia, MD

"I'm so impressed with your knowledge of our community and your connections in the lesbian world." — lesbian who recently 'came out', retired, USA

"Thanks for helping me grow into a better me." — couples client, unemployed, Atlanta, GA

"Very powerful!" — current client, physician, northeastern, USA

"After surfing a web that's frequently impersonal, pessimistic, and full of nonsensical rantings, finding Coach Sappho feels refreshingly legitimate and genuine." — colleague, lesbian dating site, international

"Coach Sappho's Success Circle is a breathe of fresh air to me, helping me 'air out' the thoughts, good and not-so-good, that get stuck in my mind. When I air my thoughts out, I feel better, I am more focused and I get more done." — current client, photographer/graphic designer, New York, NY

"I wouldn't have found or joined lesbian groups in my community, such as the reading group or the coffee shop group. I wouldn't have started to speak up for myself and come out to family. I wouldn't have learned to believe in myself enough to be where I am in my business and I wouldn't be comfortable in my own skin. I wouldn't be able to sit and talk with my sister about MY life. I wouldn't have looked for a special someone. I wouldn't have met her at Lez Rendezvous. Without Coach Sappho, my life wouldn't be nearly as satisfying as it is!" — Lez Rendezvous member, entrepreneur/healthcare professional, St. Louis, MO

"I am a 38 year old lesbian who became very tired of looking to meet new women in all the same places and through all the same means. I was desperately searching for someone who shared my same interests and life experiences as well as someone who was older and more mature. It wasn't until I found Lez Rendezvous that my excitement was renewed! Now I am meeting women all over the country and am making new friends. I also recently went on my first date with a 44-year old lesbian and am already looking forward to our second! This is the best money I've ever spent...Thank you Lez Rendezvous." — Lez Rendezvous member, marketing professional, southwestern USA

"I have participated in many group and individual counseling or coaching sessions as I have journeyed through my life. Much of the information given I still utilize in my daily dealings socially and in my career. So, before going into the Couples Circle my concerns were that I know it all, what else can I learn? I'll be bored and not get any value from this experience...It's a waste of time and money. I was wrong...You can never know it all when it comes to communication, there's always some little gem that only a third party could point out. Through this group, I am learning more about us as a couple, before I did alot of work on me, by myself, now I'm taking the step to look at an us...That's a very important change of focus and one that I need to listen and learn more about, I want to have a strong, healthy us...and this is setting us up to handle things in a loving, respectful way. I'm looking forward to developing a vision for our relationship, it's exciting to me to get that insight into our relationship and our future together. " — former couples client, healthcare professional, northeastern, USA

"Coach Sappho's Couples Circle is giving us the skills and confidence we need to help our love go the distance!" — lesbian couple, religious/sales, Midwest, USA

"Thanks Coach Sappho. I can feel the positive vibes from the group. I wanted to let you know that Lez Rendezvous is becoming very special to me. I hesitated for months before deciding to join. I'm glad I did. Thanks for providing a wonderful place." — Lez Rendezvous member, finance professional, southeastern USA

"Reflection, Reconnection and Renewal is important to personal growth and success. Doing so with a skillful, caring coach is a life-enhancing gift to oneself. This was my third year taking 'Gearing Up for an Abundant New Year' with Barb and I'll be here again next year!" — Pam Murphy,M.S.,RRT, Holistic Health Coach ,

"Your assurance that the right woman really IS out there meant a lot to me - I need to hear that. Anyways, I do feel better since we talked. I felt a little stronger and more in charge of myself. With your coaching, I find it easier being me, more often!" — former singles client, occupational therapist, western, USA

"I'm new to coaching - my partner and I are enrolled in Coach Sappho's Couples Circle. The circle is really helping me focus and gain clarity, especially when things are emotional. The coaching is helping me stay grounded with my feelings and helping me express them in a way that helps my relationship. Very powerful!" — former couples client, healthcare professional, northeastern, USA

"Tonight's discussion really helped me realize I need to start thinking about the new year, what do I really want in my life, what do I want to have emerge, what to water, what to weed out." — current client, human services professional, Orlando, FL

"I enjoyed the coaching. Even though I completed the class, coaching for me has been the gift that keeps on giving and has helped me get more specific about what I want." — former client, business owner, northeastern, USA

"How are you experiencing the world around you? The Savvy Lesbian's Guide speaks to that part of you which yearns for so much more. Discover how to stop limiting yourself with the The Savvy Lesbian's Guide . This program will inspire you and change your life." — Pam Murphy,M.S.,RRT, Holistic Health Coach, http://surviving-medicine.blogspot.com

"Know that I'm very thankful for your help, your concern, and for the way you share with the world such wonderful, beautiful ideas. Blessings are on their way to you! " — former client, counselor, southeastern USA

"Even now I continue to grow in awareness and understanding of what is possible and how to go about getting it from what I learned with you." — former singles client, founder, tutoring company for students, southeastern USA

"Taking the singles class is THE BEST gift I've ever given myself! I now have hope for my future relationships. I now have a clear idea of what I require in a relationship and I will not settle for anything less. I deserve to be happy in love. I've paid my dues and it's time for me now to get what I want out of love. Barb was warm, friendly, and open. Barb, it was wonderful to experience your generosity, support, encouragement, and intelligence. You do great work! Keep it up!" — former client, psychotherapist, eastern, USA

"I so, SO appreciate the class for single lesbians. I think it’s very valuable for all the reasons Barb mentions - particularly that we are culturally not ‘taught’ to expect, and manifest the relationships we desire." — former client, life coach, northeastern, USA

"What a treat it was to finish the singles class and then find the book in my mail. I really enjoyed the class and found it very valuable. I started to read and couldn't put the book down. Thanks so much for putting together a truly Olympic quality package here." — former client, vice president, financial industry, northeastern, USA

"Coach Sappho's passion for helping build deliciously thriving relationships drives Barb Elgin's daily activities. And "driven" is the proper word to associate with Barb. If Barb ever sleeps, she's dreaming up new ways for Coach Sappho to reach out to lesbians and improve their lives." — former client, attorney, Tampa, FL

"The coaching you provided was invaluable. It helped me face fears, expand my mind and discover what it is that I want out of life, want in a relationship, what I will and won't put up with in a relationship and how to figure out if the relationship I am in is going to pass the test of time. Barb, I remain more authentic, more open, honest and happier than ever before in my life. Thank you so much for your time, concern, observations and thought provoking questions. I really do appreciate you!!!! " — former singles client, nurse manager, Upstate New York

"It felt great talking with other lesbians about smart dating, selection of a life partner and maintenance of a healthy relationship. Your insights and materials were very helpful and your sense of humor made my experience fun." — former client, massage therapist practice manager, northeastern, USA

"Barb Elgin is one of the most committed, caring, conscientious coaches I know." — Frankie Doiron, President, Relationship Coaching Network,

"Lesbians haven't enjoyed many visible role models or advocates for loving, respectful, long lasting relationships...until Coach Sappho, that is!" — former client, office manager, Columbus, OH

"Barb, I just have to tell you - I can't believe how much happier I've been since taking your program for single lesbians. I am enjoying life and am confident that, when the time is right, the relationship of my dreams will happen. Because of what I'm learning from you, I'll know when I've met my soulmate, and, I'll be ready to build an incredible life together with her!" — former client, registered nurse (ICU), Buffalo, NY

"It was a great session today. Lots of thought provoking stuff! I do feel stronger and more in control of my destiny. Thank you for helping me get out of my box and view things from a different perspective. You really have found your niche in life. " — former client, social services director, northeastern, USA

"I just wanted to say thank you for our conversation this past week. You really help me put things into perspective and THINK. I am having a great week and it is only going to get better. I am finally getting off my butt and starting to date as this is the only way I am going to find the love I desire! I know that the more I follow the amazing tips and ideas you've given me, the smarter I will date and the greater the likelihood I will find a woman I can build a great relationship with that is geared to stand the test of time. Thank you for encouraging me and making me realize that I can make my dreams happen!" — former client, artist/actress, Los Angeles, CA

"All I know at this time is that you helped me more than you know at a very critical time in my life and, for that, I am eternally grateful! You are my anchor right now... " — former client, personal trainer, Seattle, WA

"Your commitment to inspiring single lesbians and lesbian couples to give themselves the love they deserve is very important and incredibly inspiring for me and other lesbian women. " — former client, CEO, computer services firm, northeastern, USA

"I like the telephone group because it keeps me accountable....it keeps me encouraged. I want to change my life for the better and I need tools and skills to do so and I needed to reach out and find those tools and skills and implement them in my life. Plus, a lesbian coach knows more in depth on the challenges a gay person has on top of everyday life, knows all the obstacles one must face being gay...so it is kinda of an extra bonus working with a lesbian coach. Attending has helped me take a look at me and stop the insanity of me putting me on the back burner all my life and make me a higher priority. The group keeps me moving forward to the life and love I really want and not just the survival part. Also, it is conveinent to attend because you can just pick up the phone and you are in your group!" — former client, mom & domestic partner, Midwest, USA

"I am a lesbian in the closet who found Coach Sappho while surfing the net. Since working with Barb I have made some major necessary changes in my life with the support and help of Barb and the other members in my telephone group. I am thankful to have found a lesbian organization that is not a 'meet market'. This is a sincere honest place that allows me to figure out who I am, what I want and how I can get it, when it comes to love. I would recommend Barb to anyone who is struggling with any life issue. Coach Sappho is not biased or judgemental. All of the group members have been wonderful, kind and very supportive. If you are looking for a place to rest your tired emotions or life issues you have reached it at Coach Sappho. You won't be disappointed." — former group client, warehouse manager, Philadelphia, PA

"People are always willing to buy themselves a vacation, but the benefits of one fade quickly. On the other hand, the learning and new perspective you gain from Barb can last a lifetime! " — former client, IT professional, Phoenix, AZ

"When I am most troubled in my daily life situations, Barb has a gift for listening with respect and patience, and then she gently mirrors for me in clear ways the parts of myself that I struggle with. I have grown tremendously from her insights. I hope others can benefit from her abilities to listen and give guidance as much as I have. Thank you Barb! " — former client, 5th grade teacher, Baltimore, MD